Ok, so you have been married for a while and things are going great except for in the bedroom.
Your sex life has simply become dull and boring. Not to worry, you are not alone. You see, after
having the same old sex with the same old person over and over things can quickly become routine and
just not as exciting as they used to be. So, here are 5 tips that will help you bring the fun and
excitement back into sex.
1. Kiss More – Sounds simple but many couples underestimate the
power of a kiss. A good, deep, passionate kiss can work wonders.
2. Find each other’s erogenous zones – Everybody is different
therefore each person will have different erogenous zones. I am sure there is one you have not
explored with your spouse. Touch a spot you have never touched before. Place your mouth somewhere
you have never before. Have fun with it. Make it like a game. See what spot gets your partner the
most excited.
3. Tell your partner what you want – Communication is very very
important. If you are in the mood for a quickie let your spouse know. Women have to prepare mentally
for sex so husbands if you know you just want a quickie let your wife know. This way she will know
what she is getting into.
4. Make sex a priority – Sex is important to a marriage. It is
important that you make time for it. Make it a priority. People seem to always find a reason to put
off sex. Sit down with your spouse and reprioritize. Sex should be closer to the top then the
bottom of the list.
5. Try something new – Doing the same thing over and over is a sure
way to make sex less desirable. You don’t have to go overboard here but you should take some
initiative to try something new the next to make you and your spouse have sex. Something as simple
as trying a new position can make a world of difference.
Remember, sex should be exciting and fun. Don’t get stuck in a rut. Open your heart and
mind and be willing to do something different.
A great guide I recommend you read is “500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets”
By Michael Webb. This book comes highly recommended by many Christian Counselors. It is not vulgar
or offensive in any way.
