One day while I was traveling in my car to hill area. Suddenly like a flash an idea came to my head. How is in this busy modern life one can remain happy and enjoy life each and every movement.   A man’s life without wife is like jewelry without pendent or a sweet without sweetness, or a dinner without desert. Scenery without the colour in it. Or a flower without fragrance. There is an old saying behind every man there is a hand of women.   1) Understanding   If a man has to go the jungle of this modern world and perform 100%, he should have a peaceful and happy married life. That is only possible when he has an understanding wife and a happy married life so that he can do every thing in his life.   2) EGO   So to have a happy and married life both the partner’s should have faith and compassion towards each other and both should compromise attitude towards each other. Then man’s life, wife, marriage will be full of life. One should not bring three words in English which is called ego. Yes this three word is the bottom of every problem. If both the partner forget and don’t bring this ego in between then there will be no tension in the marriage.   3) Faith   Faith is the most important in marriage. These five words are the pillars of a happy married life. Both the partner’s should have faith on the relationship and institution of marriage, so that the marriage boat will sail without huddles. An old saying goes which says “In marriage both the husband and wife or two wheels of the vehicle “no one is big or small.   4) Courtship:   For a happy married life courtship or romance between the partners are very important. The three English word sexes play important part. God has created the beautiful world with both the sexes for enjoyment. Both of them should take and enjoy sex without disturbance. But one should always keep faithfully to each other.         5) Children   In marriage to be stable then children’s life will be smooth and they will not get wayward. It depends on the marriage. If both the partner will not fight have happy life then children’s life will also be happy and stable. Because without children a house/home is not complete. A House does not mean four walls with bricks and furniture. A house gets complete with children. A women who creates and sustains a home and under whose hands children grow up to be strong and pure men and women , is a creator second only to God. The family is the test of freedom, because the family is the only thing that the free man makes both for himself and by himself. As the gardener is responsible for the products of his garden, so the family is responsible for the conduct of its children. They say to bring up a child in the way we should go, travel the way you once in a while. A happy family is but an earlier heaven.   6) Companionship   When you are young the marriage goes well with physical relationship, romance. But when you grow old, your children have gone out for studies or got married then companionship between you and your wife is very important. Both of you have grown old physically also you both have changed, and then the companionship or friendships comes in between two of you.   7) Have faith towards God   Me and you and all this world has come because of the god or the super power, which brings every day and night, brings life with colors. One should always keep faith in god and be positive. Then you can enjoy life as well have a long happy married life.