There are three reasons for this.
First, being socially proactive may be new to you.
I recall when I first started lifting weights, I didn't have upper pectoral muscles - the muscle at
the top of your chest just under your clavicle that make your chest look big.
Actually I did, but they were so small and weak, it took a good three weeks to even begin to feel
them. Every time I worked them out I was incredibly sore and could barely move my arms.
And then I reached the point where the muscle was developed that I could handle heavy weight without
all the fatigue and soreness. Same as in your mind.
You need to push yourself harder everyday in accordance to the level of your skills. Because
developing a new neuro-pathways will take time.
The second reason that can cause a feeling of social fatigue is that when you think that there is
too much to do or learn when meeting women.
It's not really so much about "fatigue" but it's more on having an overwhelmed feeling.
One way that can frazzle your mind is when you are overwhelmed by something. And this can lead to
some sort of discouragement, exhaustion and depression. It's like your body saying "Whew, enough for
this much work, I'm quitting before I can even begin"
This will hinder you from doing any progress. I was in this situation when I was putting a lot of
theories on my notes. And as I looked at them I've seen that I am just like looking for a huge and
complex physics equation.
It was discouraging to think that I had to do almost all the needed things just to get a good
quality of women.
Lastly, you will feel socially exhausted for your dating and mating game, when you spend a lot of
effort and focus on stuff in wrong situation and find out it was not helpful to your pick-up.
Many men fails in attracting women and in fact almost 99% of men gets it wrong. Usually the women
can't tell because most men after a harsh rejections learn to keep their inner "stuff" to their
self.
But this doesn't deny the truth that when the average guy is attracted to a woman, he exerts his
effort and mental energy on trying to impress the woman, or figure out if she likes him.
It's the man's role to IMPRESS the woman and EARN a fulfillment for your urge from her - as what we
get from the media, our parents and friends.
Ridiculous!
I hate seeing an advertisement of a guy that bumbling around a cute girl trying to impress her, even
though he looks like a fool while the girl giggles like she's better than him because she's a
girl.
Ok enough ranting... the point is that most guys are screwed when it comes to being in control of
their dating lives.
But if a guy takes the time to adjust the way his MIND works when it comes to attraction, it changes
everything.
You need to get the most out of your body and mind so that it can lead you to the highest level of
your interaction with women and that's what's really attractive.
A MAN AT HIS BEST.
