Write down everything you find that you think might be even slightly incriminating. Don't think
that you will be able to remember everything, you are under enough stress as it is without having to
keep all the information in your mind.
Keep track of all dates, times, unknown phone numbers and suspicious activities. Does he go to the
gym but have a dry towel when he comes home, or a wet towel that doesn't smell? You will be much
more able to track patterns in his behavior if you have all the information written down.
Always pay close attention to everything your husband says or does. You may have noticed a strange
behavior one day but you're not really sure if he has done it before, if you write it all down you
will be 100% confident that he has changed some crucial habit, or created a new one.
It is completely up to you how far you want to look into your husband's personal life. Some people
believe there are certain boundaries that should not be crossed, but it is up to you to do whatever
you feel comfortable with. Remember that if he is cheating the end will always justify the means.
The most important thing to keep track of is your phone bill, if you notice strange numbers you
should be very wary of what your husband is doing. It is one of the simplest mistakes he can make,
calling his new girlfriend on your phone. If you have access you should also check his cell phone
records.
When you finally track down that tangible, physical evidence, take note of exactly how and where you
found it. Ensure that you don't leave any evidence of your investigation behind, make copies of all
important paper work or emails and leave the originals as you found them. You do not want to arouse
your husbands suspicions until you are ready to confront him. Keep all you evidence in a safe place
preferably out of the house.
When you think you have accumulated all the evidence you need, and you're ready to confront your
husband, make sure you have a plan! Write-down all the questions and accusations so that you won't
lose track. Have all the evidence prepared as it is important that you have a watertight case, don't
confront him until the evidence clearly points to his infidelity. You must prepare yourself for him
to continue lying is will be a very emotional time for both of you.
Your intuition is a very powerful tool, remember to always follow it and it will lead you to the
truth.
