Young men are taught that their carnal desire is crude and silly, and that women are doing you a
favor by ALLOWING YOU to mate with them.
"Doofus dad" syndrome is another societal factor that I'm going on. In almost every TV commercial
and sitcom, the "dad" or "boyfriend" or "husband" is a dopey, incompetent goof, and the
mom/wife/girlfriend/daughter has to use her superior intelligence to fix the situation.
This brings to an opinion that women are "better," and that their time is more important than
yours.
You will feel required to give a lot of your time to a woman if your time is not so valuable.
But here's the thing - if you are giving a girl too much time, you will end up not present for most
of that time. You will be distracted, resentful, you will give her your "half-assed" attention.
When I analyzed tons and tons of dates I went on women, it was just when I realized it.
After that I started giving women smaller amounts of my time, but with my FULL ATTENTION.
Aside from making our time better, this creates a VAST ATTRACTION because I left women craving
more.
This make my girlfriends can't get enough of me - and I don't GIVE THEM "enough."
You see, "enough" would mean, "overexposure" to me, and women can't be pulled to what they already
have.
I don't recommend you play games with women and pretend to be busy or whatever. In fact, the proper
way to manage your time is by being HONEST.
No need of games, just be real with the girl - and don't spend more time that you want.
Be a man on the go - focus on your personal goals, and enjoy whatever free time you have with
women.
Now it requires that in a short span of time that you can be able to meet a lot of women, which I'll
have to take up in another newsletter.
It's a sad thing to see that men waste their lives chasing and "putting up with" women, and then
they are buried in their coffin ALONE.
Women aren't property that you can keep or somehow take with you when you die. Think about that.
It doesn't mean that you can "keep" the women if you invest all your time with her.
I want to make one more point - when you start being honest about how much time you're willing to
give a woman, you may feel GUILTY.
Either she will try to make you feel guilty, or you will feel it on your own. This is ok, it just
means you have a weak focus.
You see, if you are following your true path, it will usually stray from the social norm.
You will most likely experience some discomfort, tension, guilt, even loneliness at first, if you
are in the habit of adopting the values others try to impose onto you.
That's why I set and develop the Attraction Code. It's all about self-control, finding true path,
and letting the real 'you' emerge from within.
And there's no need for us to impose our goals onto you. Given the proper guidance, I know you are
able to do that for yourself.
Vin
