Managing Your Time when Meeting Women - Part 2 By Vin DiCarlo
<p>Young men are taught that their carnal desire is crude and silly, and that women are doing you a favor by ALLOWING YOU to mate with them.<br /> "Doofus dad" syndrome is another societal factor that I'm going on. In almost every TV commercial and sitcom, the "dad" or "boyfriend" or "husband" is a dopey, incompetent goof, and the mom/wife/girlfriend/daughter has to use her superior intelligence to fix the situation.<br /> <br /> This brings to an opinion that women are "better," and that their time is more important than yours.<br /> <br /> You will feel required to give a lot of your time to a woman if your time is not so valuable.<br /> <br /> But here's the thing - if you are giving a girl too much time, you will end up not present for most of that time. You will be distracted, resentful, you will give her your "half-assed" attention.<br /> <br /> When I analyzed tons and tons of dates I went on women, it was just when I realized it.<br /> <br /> After that I started giving women smaller amounts of my time, but with my FULL ATTENTION.<br /> <br /> Aside from making our time better, this creates a VAST ATTRACTION because I left women craving more.<br /> <br /> This make my girlfriends can't get enough of me - and I don't GIVE THEM "enough."<br /> <br /> You see, "enough" would mean, "overexposure" to me, and women can't be pulled to what they already have.<br /> <br /> I don't recommend you play games with women and pretend to be busy or whatever. In fact, the proper way to manage your time is by being HONEST.<br /> <br /> No need of games, just be real with the girl - and don't spend more time that you want.<br /> <br /> Be a man on the go - focus on your personal goals, and enjoy whatever free time you have with women.<br /> <br /> Now it requires that in a short span of time that you can be able to meet a lot of women, which I'll have to take up in another newsletter.<br /> <br /> It's a sad thing to see that men waste their lives chasing and "putting up with" women, and then they are buried in their coffin ALONE.<br /> <br /> Women aren't property that you can keep or somehow take with you when you die. Think about that.<br /> <br /> It doesn't mean that you can "keep" the women if you invest all your time with her.<br /> <br /> I want to make one more point - when you start being honest about how much time you're willing to give a woman, you may feel GUILTY.<br /> <br /> Either she will try to make you feel guilty, or you will feel it on your own. This is ok, it just means you have a weak focus.<br /> <br /> You see, if you are following your true path, it will usually stray from the social norm.<br /> <br /> You will most likely experience some discomfort, tension, guilt, even loneliness at first, if you are in the habit of adopting the values others try to impose onto you.<br /> <br /> That's why I set and develop the Attraction Code. It's all about self-control, finding true path, and letting the real 'you' emerge from within.<br /> <br /> And there's no need for us to impose our goals onto you. Given the proper guidance, I know you are able to do that for yourself.<br /> <br /> Vin</p>
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